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Valentine’s Day Is About…

There are so many opinions about Valentine’s Day.  It is too commercialized, too many expectations, its beautiful, there is a lot of love, it’s not real…

Valentines should be what you and your loved ones like it to be.  That is all that matters.  If it is important to her than it should be important to you.

Valentine’s Day is about celebrating our love by connecting to the ones that are special to us.   It is not meant for us to treat our loved ones with more respect and understanding than any other day.  It is a reminder of how we should be treating our loved ones on a daily basis.

We all want to love and be loved.  We may fear it, ignore it and fight the thought of it – but that still does not change our intrinsic need to love and be loved.

There is no greater achievement and a sign of a persons strength of character when they risk loving and letting others love them.

I was asked this morning: If love is so critical to us, how do some survive without love in their life?

One can survive without love.  Life is not about surviving, anyone can survive – Life is about living and in order to truly live there needs to be love, authentic love.

When you sing, sing with love – when you hug someone, hug them with love – when you smile, smile with love – do acts of kindness with genuine love – live with love revolved around you.

Let valentines day be a reminder for all of us to truly connect with our loved ones and those that cross our path in life.

Being the Olympics right now, take the opportunity to give out some golden hearts and do what you need to do to win the hearts of your loved ones.

Fred Sarkari

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8 Responses to “Valentine’s Day Is About…”

  1. Debbie and Randy says:

    Happy Valentine’s Day to you too.

    Thank you for your warm thoughts. Randy and I have been married for 38 years in September. Couples these days do not seem to hold the commitment to heart. The heart can be a dangersous thing at times. Only you can hold to your vows and believe in yourself and each other to the fullest to make a marriage work. If only one of you is doing all the work, the commitment will end. That is why you have to find your Heart. Your soulmate. The one you want to share everything with, good or bad.
    I can see that commitment in your Mother and Father, Fred. I am sure there were bad times mixed in the good times but you can see the commitment there. It is a BEAUTIFUL thing.

    Your mom and dad made us smile. I do hope we can spend more time with them. You can tell them the offer still stands if they should ever want to come out West and visit. We have lots of room.

    you can come too… ;o)!

    Randy is going to come to the Seminar with Treena. They are looking forward to seeing and hearing

    • fredsarkari says:

      Thanks Debbie, that is a beautiful thing that you wrote. My parents had a blast meeting you as well.

      Looking forward to seeing Randy and Treena at the session. Make sure they sit in the front row. :)

  2. Josue says:

    Fred,
    Excellent words of advice. Thank you for enlightening and reminding me of what is really important. Take care and keep the great advice coming.

    Aloha,
    Josue’

    • fredsarkari says:

      Josue’ thanks for your comments – glad you are enjoying the reads.

      So what were you reminded of that is “really important” in your life?

      Have a great week

      Fred

  3. Aspi says:

    Dear Fred,

    We all have desire for love but you deserve the most and I hope
    that you will get that special one you were waiting for. Give Debbie
    my thanks for those kind words and get them to be in touch with
    us. I will be commited to all the people I know. Love Mom & Dad.

  4. “Valentine’s Day is about celebrating our love by connecting to the ones that are special to us. It is not meant for us to treat our loved ones with more respect and understanding than any other day. It is a reminder of how we should be treating our loved ones on a daily basis.”

    THAT WAS A PROFOUND THOUGHT FRED.
    THANKS FOR SHARING THOSE BEAUTIFUL SENTIMENTS

    Love and Light

    Meher Amalsad
    WHAT IS LOVE?
    ITS A PUSH WITHOUT A SHOVE
    .

  5. Freyaz says:

    Loved this line, “There is no greater achievement and a sign of a persons strength of character when they risk loving and letting others love them.” The question is though, how do you risk again?

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